In Celebration - The Life of Hannah Nydahl

Dearest Friends:

It is my aspiration in writing this entry that Hannah's life--and her memory--will be a teaching that continues to benefit all sentient beings impartially, without exception. 

Hannah and Lama Ole Nydahl first traveled to Nepal in the 60’s on their honeymoon. It is there where their Buddhist roots were awakened when they met Lopon Tsechu Rinpoche; however, these roots were earlier recognized as children playing in the woods north of Copenhangen, Denmark where 5-year-old Hannah asked 10-year-old Ole to build a meditation hut for her out of tree branches.

In the 60’s, Buddhism had not arrived in the west; thus, translated texts were close to non-existent. Hannah proceeded to learn Tibetan in a slow, unfolding process and translated her meditation texts and Ngondro practices word for word, beginning with the prostration text. To practice speaking Tibetan, she and Ole stayed in Tibetan camps where no one knew how to speak English. They then became the first western students of His Holiness the 16th Karmarpa, Ranjung Rigpe Dorje, and after a few years, the Karmapa was very specific in his instructions to them that they return to Europe and work for the Dharma. Connecting the east to the west was vitally important to the Karmapa, and in order to do this, translators were also vitally important. Few Buddhist texts had been translated, and few teachers spoke English; thus, Hannah began translating for Tibetan lamas and Rinpoches. She and Ole also arranged large pilgrimage tours to the east, inviting as many as 100 people every year, which continued their contact with the east. Later in life, Hannah translated for the Tibetan teachers at the Karmarpa International Institute (KIBI) in New Delhi. His Holiness the 16th Karmapa had referred to her as the "Mother of Buddhism in the West"---and appropriately so.

Hannah experienced the vast depth and breadth of the Buddha’s teachings. “There is no end to them”, she once said, but the teachings always confirmed her belief in their truths, which progressively took her into deeper understanding, while at the same time seeing how those teachings benefitted herself and others. One of the greatest messages I heard from Hannah was that if you do not know the Dharma, “you tend to live in some unrealistic illusion and think that things are what they are; you give things a permanent existence, which they do not have. You may think something is wonderful, then suddenly it is not wonderful any more……the teachings say that we can understand impermanence by seeing how friends turn into enemies and enemies turn into friends…”

Hannah gave tirelessly of herself for the benefit of all sentient beings while traveling around the world, and the love people felt for her reminded me of the love that people felt for Mother Teresa. She was an amazing teacher--teaching best by the example that she set. She was egoless. So many times I saw her when she had had little sleep, and a “yawn” simply propelled her into the compassionate action of Green Tara. The last time I saw her was in November 2006 in San Diego. As I sat next to her at dinner, I knew she was seriously ill although many were telling me that she would be okay. I told her how I had received a copy of her recommended reading list (56 books, translated in English), and I vowed to read them all. I didn’t realize how difficult it would be to obtain a copy of some of those books; thus, this has been quite the project. To date, I have read nearly 30 of them, which also requires study, contemplation and meditation and includes a few book reports that I have written, particularly in regard to Padmasambhava's teachings; however, completing this endeavor takes on additional meaning for me now because it seems to be a way in which I can honor Hannah and the Buddhadharma that was her life, which has also become the foundation of my own life. The teachings have penetrated very "deep", and I cannot express the windows that continue to open while obscurations fall by the wayside. Princess Mandarava and Yeshe Tosgyal are among my heroines now, and they were certainly feminists before the west knew the meaning of the word. It's impossible to believe that Lama Ole Nydahl wrote his book, The Great Seal, in the hospital following his parachutte fall where yes, he hit the ground. And Kalu Rinoche—to think he was a Khenpo at age 11 and spent 12 years in solitary retreat. I bow to these teachers and many more teachers whose blessings we receive from reading their words and integrating them--and their aspects--into our practice.

In the meantime, I had asked a select number of my students to support me and join with me in reciting prayers and mantras for Hannah. After three days my lungs started to fill with fluid, and whereas lung cancer was what was killing her, I saw this as a good sign but I couldn’t transform it so I had to stop. We sometimes simply cannot interfere with one’s karma or destined journey. My Tibetan Medical Astrologist Astronomer, Jhampa, reminded me that it is very common for women in Tibet to not live through their obstacle year of age 61. According to the Tibetan calendar conversion, Hannah was 61.

On March 31, 2006 (April 1 in Copenhagen), the day that Hannah left her body for Dewachen, the Pure Realm of Great Bliss, I seemed to know that I should cancel all of my plans for the day, and I sat in bed reading Gently Whispered by Kalu Rinpoche. I wanted to read the words of one of our Kagyu lineage teachers. When I got to Chapter 5, "Teachings on the Bardos of Death and Dying", I took a break and went over to my computer, which is when an email came through from Ole, asking us to say the mantra of Amitabha for Hannah--the Red Buddha of Limitless Light--because she would not live for more than a few hours. The visualization of Hannah with Amitabha at her head was so clear, and I was grateful that Ole allowed us to participate in her passing. Then I went back to Kalu Rinpoche. When Hannah left her body, I was reading Chapter 8, "Commentary on the Bodhisattva Vows", which was the ESSENCE of Hannah’s life—--living and honoring her Bodhisattva Vows. Ole then wrote a letter that included the words, “She returned to space, timeless and beautiful." Finally, "the finest gift to Hannah now is to continue your practice.”

What I will miss about Hannah the most are her occasional emails. They were better than Christmas. One email from her negated all of the junk emails that I receive. She was articulate to detail and would ask me specifics about dharma activity here in Utah. She would sign her emails MUCH love, and I could feel the transmission. She always answered my emails even when I told her not to because she was much too busy. The last words she spoke to me in San Diego were also her greatest teaching for me. I asked her if she missed anything. Afterall, she didn’t really have a home because she was always traveling around the world. I asked, “Don’t you miss Denmark?” She replied, “I don’t miss anything.” I quickly responded, “So, you are giving me a teaching on attachment, which is so difficult for women to dissolve.” She laughed and smiled that big, gracious smile of hers that always came from her heart. Thus, when I miss her flesh and bones that have no ultimate reality, I connect with her mind---I remember her words---and it is then that I am free from the grief of her physical absence.

Copyright @ 2007 by Carol A. Wilson

Archived Newsletter VII - May 3, 2007

Dearest Friends:

Below is a letter that I received from William Lee Rand for clarification on the FDA controversy that many of you have emailed and asked me about. I hope that it proves to be helpful; however, I'm sure that we haven't heard the end of this.

Since this is a newsletter, I should include some other "tidbits" of information since there are never enough minutes and hours in the day to share with you. So, hang on....

I'm sorry that I couldn't be here last weekend but I was in San Diego teaching a Reiki I class. The Universe, in its all-knowingness, chose that date; thus, I continue to surrender in joy and gratitude. Sometimes it reminds me of when I was a soccer mom, but believe me, my son would have never been an ODP (Olympic Development Player) if I wouldn't have learned to surrender and go with the flow of its schedule, which included all major holidays.

We all learn "core" and foundational information from our teachers but then we grow and develop our own authentic path. Five years ago I was not where I am now, and five years from now I will be in yet another place. It's amazing how our journey unfolds; believe me, there is always something new around the next corner. My First Degree Reiki teacher was DiDi Otterson, who was a student of Denise Crundall. Denise was one of Beth Gray's two Reiki Masters. DiDi is why I have an inside perspective about this lineage, why I appreciate Denise Crundall, and why I include her poem "Togetherness" in my First Degree manual. I have spent many hours channeling with Reiki practitioners and Masters from this lineage because Mrs. Takata taught Beth Gray how to channel with Reiki symbols (I include an article about Beth in my Second Degree manual that was published in Reiki News). DiDi is the one who directed me to clairvoyant Walter MaKichen who had been her spiritual teacher for over 20 years. In all honesty, his clairvoyant abilities are like nothing I've ever seen, and he recently published the one-of -its-kind book Spirit Babies. The one-on-one mentoring I received from Walter has been invaluable to me because I had to learn how to manage being an open channel--bombarded with information. My Second Degree teacher was Grace Sesma, who was in the Reiki lineage of Barbara Ray Weber. Grace has also been a lifelong student of Grandfather Kachora, who is a Yaqui Medicine Man and Toltec Lineage Holder---now 92 years of age--one of the most beloved and revered healer in Mexico and known throughout the world. I learned so much from Grace about healing among the Indigenous First Nations, Peoples and Communities, and I have a growing appreciation every single day of that knowledge. Now that I am "in love" with Young Living Essential Oils, I appreciate Grandfather Kachora's love for plants, and in his words, "The way to the spirit is through an appreciation and knowledge of plants. The way to the infinite is through the experience of the infinite whole." In a future newsletter I will include a picture of me with Jesus Gonzales Mercado, Huichol, a now 85 year old shaman from the Huichol community of Tuxpan de Bolanos, Jalisco. I guarantee that you will laugh....his bonnet with feathers, tied under his chin is the most adorable thing I've ever seen.

Someone has asked--so yes, I have done hemi-sync training but as I told my Reiki Master teacher, I will never teach it, which is why you don't hear me talk about it or the metaphysical training that he acquired at the Monroe Institute. If you are interested in the Monroe Institute you'd be interested in Cosmic Awareness. However, it simply is not my path. I know that my purpose in this life is to be in my body helping other people in their body, which can be challenging for people who are working with high vibrational frequencies and struggling to stay grounded. Grounding is a very big challenge for many, if not most, of my students, and the solution is NOT astral projection. Trust me. I believe in the dharma truth that to acquire a precious body is indeed a rare gift, and we should utilize that body as a vehicle to help all sentient beings. I have taken Bodhisattva Vows many times to do just that. When we reach enlightenment, we will have endless time to zoom around timeless space without a body but in the meantime, the body is a tool to get us there. Let's not put the cart before the horse. I also made a huge shift from metaphysical training to spiritual development (there is a difference) after spending time with Thich Nhat Hanh, the Dalai Lama, Khenpo Choga Rinpoche, and my other teachers, primarily Lama Ole Nydahl and His Holiness the 17th Karmapa, Trinley Thaye Dorje. They are my living examples of human potential, and being in their enlightened energy fields brings tears to my eyes. I learned last week that in November I will be returning to India in pilgrimage while His Holiness the 17th Karmapa is in Bodhgaya, where the Buddha reached Enlightenment. If I decide to remain under the Bodhi tree until I attain Enlightenment, I will send an email or instant message. :-)

There again, remember that there are many different airlines to select from in order to arrive at a destination. If there are diving boards all around a swimming pool, you can jump off different diving boards to get into the pool. The important thing is to get into the pool--not how you get there. As I did, you will discover the tools that work best for you. And don't worry about developing your siddhis and psychic abilities! It unfolds and develops, especially the more that you meditate and practice Reiki. You'll find that you can even be "too" psychic. As a friend said to me last week when he couldn't hide something from me: "It's so unnerving." :-) So---enjoy the process---in joy and gratitude.

Boundless Love and Light,

Carol

Copyright @ 2007 by Carol A. Wilson

April 27, 2007

Information on FDA ruling not factual

Dear Students of Reiki,

Recently there have been many emails circulating on the internet warning about a new ruling the FDA is about to create that would threaten the practice of Reiki and other complementary practices making it illegal to practice unless you’re a medically licensed health care provider. The emails have also said that our right to use vitamins and herbs will also be threatened by this new ruling so that they will only be available by a doctor’s prescription and even then at very low dosages. People have been asked to protest this ruling by sending emails to the FDA by April 30.

This information is not based on fact. The practice of Reiki isn’t being threatened by any proposed FDA ruling, nor is our right to access vitamins and herbs. The information passed around on the Internet has for some reason been distorted and misrepresented.

In December 2006, the FDA issued a guidance document that commented on an existing ruling. They are not proposing anything new. To summarize part of the existing ruling, it indicates that if a vitamin, herb or food manufacturer states that their product will cure an illness, that manufacturer must first get permission from the FDA before making such a statement. The same is true for any practice such as Reiki. If a Reiki practitioner claims that Reiki will cure an illness, then the practitioner must get permission from the FDA before making that claim. 

The National Health Freedom Coalition has reviewed this issue and written a clarification document that I suggest you read for further information. Look specifically at points 5 and 6. http://www.nationalhealthfreedom.org/AlertFDAguidanceDoc.html

Here’s the link to the FDA document http://www.fda.gov/cber/gdlns/altmed.pdf

Sincerely,

William Lee Rand,

President, The International Center for Reiki Training

Archived Newsletter V & VI - January 30 & April 18, 2007

April 18, 2007

Dearest Friends:

Many of us are feeling pain in our heart chakra as a result of the shooting massacre at Virginia Tech, which I have been additionally aware of because my daughter, Chelsey, has been in Fairfax, Virginia for the past two weeks doing investigative work for the federal government, and my parents live in Weems, Virginia. Prayers and chanting "om mani peme hung" will help everyone. Sometimes I put a couple of drops of JOY on my heart chakra and hold my hands over my heart chakra or I hold a rose quartz crystal in my hands over my heart chakra (yes, the crystal gets very hot). I remember after 9/11 when a group of us Reiki practitioners and Masters got together to send Reiki and assist in the healing of the Universe. The screams of 9/11 alone had a shattering effect on many souls throughout the Universe, and SO much healing needed to be done. Let's remember that any time catastrophic events occur, they are not isolated, but rather, have a rippling effect throughout the Universe. One of our callings as healers is to take action and do what we can, utilizing the amazing gifts in our healing toolbox.

I am pasting in a portion of Frank Petter's latest newsletter because he has some great Reiki information. He also honors his teachers in the Reiki way in which teachers are honored. Frank is one who truly understands the Eastern philosophy in which Reiki was rediscovered not only because of his Zen background and training but because he was married to a Japanese woman for many years. This philosophy is often challenging for many Westerners. I am very "old school" in that respect in that I deeply revere all of my spiritual teachers where rightness or wrongness is not germane. Those teachers go beyond Reiki teachers. When I travel to hear Lama Ole, I like to be the one who gets everyone on their feet here in the West when he walks into the room, and although Ole doesn't want us to bow and prostrate to him, I automatically do that with teachers who more strictly adhere to traditional protocol. I will attach a picture to prove it! One of my pilgrimmage friends from Germany took the picture of me with His Holiness the 17th Karmapa in Kalimpong, India, and that picture is my most cherished possession! Many, many years ago I told a friend of mine, "I will never, ever, ever do all of that bowing stuff that Buddhists do!" In retrospect, I didn't have the humility.

I remember reading all the books about my Buddhist lineage teachers and what their own teachers expected of them as a test of their faith and devotion. It was almost more than I could bear to see Milarepa build a brick house at the instruction of Marpa--first in a triangular shape, then a half moon shape and then a round shape-- each time Marpa telling him to tear it down and start over. Of course, Milarepa became severely depressed but he persevered and finally built a brick square house of nine floors, purifying all negative karma and accumulating enough merit to attain Awakening in a single lifetime. Milarepa wanted lineage transmissions much the same way as Mrs. Takata wanted to receive the Reiki transmission from Dr. Hayashi. She wanted the Reiki Mastership transmission so desperately that she was even willing to give Dr. Hayashi her home in Hawaii. In another book that I was reading about another Kagyupa lineage teacher, Tilopa, Tilopa would deliberately create the most catastrophic situations for Naropa, one of his students; however, all of these events were teachings in humility, faith and devotion to teacher. It takes a lot to cut through ego and pride.

I realize that the West has changed yoga from its original intention in the east but I hope that one day Reiki hasn't changed in the West to the extent that the context in which Reiki was founded is forgotten. Although times change, and as Frank says, every culture has its own "cocktail", I hope that we remain a little old school here in the West, which is what Mrs. Takata and our other lineage teachers would want. The reality is that the Reiki principles and ideals are being threatened here in the West, and I hope, not to extinction. 

So, enjoy Frank's message, my friends:

"Spring has come, and the hearts blossom after a long period of gathering strength. Have you ever seen a lotus flower opening, petal after petal? Before we get into the Reiki work, I would like to share a text with you that I wrote in India some time ago:

A Ripple in the Lotus Pond

Every one has gone to sleep, except for the frogs and the silence in between their calls. They always talk to me, as I speak with them. Together, we watch the lotus that grows amongst them, opening. Petal by petal stretch forth in the moonlight. They know and I know. We have seen it happen many times before.

Clouds obscure the scene with their winter coats, hiding, then revealing mercilessly. Known and unknown sounds are carried by the cool fragrance of January. In the distance, an owl flies by, unseen.

Soft, dark and muddy, the bottom of the pond thinks of itself as the whole world. 

Pushing through is no easy task. The sap of life flows into one petal at a time, excruciatingly slow. The plant quivers: this way, and that way, ready to sink back to the bottom one more time. The gentle wind whispers in my ear “My love, the dawn is near.” 

The pond takes another breath as one more petal blooms where there was darkness a moment ago. Soon they will stand before it in awe and their hearts will be filled with bliss. They will pray to the Heavens and bow deeply to the Earth. It is good that they have never seen what I see.

I get up and go home, knowing that it will continue without me. A tear of gratitude slides out of my left eye: a ripple in the lotus pond.

And now to today’s Reiki theme:

The Reiki Symbols

I have been asked by a friend from South Africa to write an article on the Reiki- Symbols. After writing it I thought that it may be helpful to all of you. Below I will share with you what I have been able to research in Japan. My sources are the Usui Reiki Ryoho Gakkai- Dr. Usui’s original Reiki Society, and my beloved teacher, Chiyoko Yamaguchi, a direct student of Dr. Hayashi, and her son Tadao. When referring to Dr. Usui, Dr. Hayashi and Mrs. Yamaguchi, I will use the suffix Sensei. This is a Japanese word meaning “ respected teacher”. This is the proper way to address the one who imparts his love, grace and knowledge to you…

The Reiki Symbols are a wonderful source of inspiration, creativity and confusion. 

Inspiration

Let’s begin with the first, inspiration. Reiki was born in an eternal moment of intense inspiration and self- discovery. This intensity is present in any Reiki moment, during a treatment or an attunement. In a treatment, this is partly due to the symbols that intensify the energy, heal the soul and transcendent time and space. In an attunement it is due to the fact that the symbols help to awaken the sleeping Reiki in the student.

Creativity

Usui Sensei incorporated three symbols in his work, for his students to be able to work more effectively. Those three symbols were given specific jobs to do.

The Power Symbol was used exclusively on the body.

The Mental Healing Symbol was used exclusively for mental healing.

The Distant Healing Symbol was used exclusively for distant healing.

Three Concepts

When talking about the symbols, we must keep one thing in mind. The symbols have a geometric shape as well as a name- and, a meaning. This means, that a symbol can be many things. It can be a Reiki Symbol- meaning a tool that is exclusively used in Reiki. It can also be a Kanji (Chinese/ Japanese pictograph) or a symbol from another culture. And it can possibly be a Mantra. To all those three concepts apply different sets of rules.

1- A Reiki Symbol

A Reiki Symbol is a symbol incorporated into the Healing art by Usui Sensei. For me a symbol channeled by one of us, is not necessarily useless, but it does not belong to the original system. Therefore I would not call it a Reiki Symbol. A Reiki Symbol is Reiki specific. Usui And Hayashi Sensei stressed that they should not be shared with anyone who has not been attuned to Reiki. The one who uses it must have certain background knowledge, and healing skills, as well as instruction in how and when to use the symbol. You would not give a chain saw to a five year old either.

In the Japanese tradition the first two symbols are considered just symbols. They have a name but this name is just a description and the description does not need to be said when the symbol is written. Chiyoko Sensei said” no need to say “ spoon, spoon, spoon” when picking up a spoon

It is often thought that one is initiated into a certain symbol. The fact is that you are initiated into Reiki. The Symbols are just tools that help us concentrate on a certain quality. The cross, the symbols for male or female, or a stop sign on the highway are more or less the same. They tell us what we, and others ought to do in a given situation.

2- A Kanji or a letter/ syllable from another language

A Kanji or a letter/syllable from another language must have a certain meaning. The meaning of the power symbol, for example is 

“ By Imperial Command” or “ Direct Spirit”.

The meaning of the Mental Healing Symbol is “ Bad habit” (often used in connection with sexually perverted habits). This explains why in Japan the first two symbols are not chanted when they are used. Who could say while working on a client, “ By the order of the Emperor, by the order of the Emperor”, or even “bad habit bad habit bad habit…”?

Usui sensei gave the symbols Japanese names, because that was his language. The names were to explain what the symbols were used for. So “bad habit” is not really the name of the symbol, but a description of what we do with it.

The origin of the Second symbol is to be found in Sanskrit. It is a Sanskrit seed syllable from the Siddham writing, called Hrih. The Japanese call it “ Kiriku” because they have a hard time pronouncing a word filled with konsonant, like “hrih”.

In Japanese esoteric Buddhism (Mikkyo), this symbol represents the Amida Buddha, the Buddha of Love and Compassion as well as the Senju Kannon, the one thousand armed Bodhisattva. The Hrih, it is said, was formed out of a tear of compassion… 

So, knowingly or unknowingly you call on this divine emanation when you perform mental Healing. This means that you do not do the healing, but the deity does… 

A Mantra

A mantra is made of sound or a number of sounds. A mantra needs to be pronounced in order to release its power. The distant healing symbol is a mixture of symbol and mantra. That means that it must be written and spoken. If it cannot be spoken aloud, it has to be at least pronounced by your lips silently.

Our Distant Healing Symbol is made up of five kanji that are jammed into one another. This is not done deliberately, but with precision and deep knowledge of the subtleties of the language. If you were to write all the kanji separately, you would see that the top part of the second kanji fits into the bottom part of the first. The top part of the third kanji fits into the bottom part of the second. The top part of the fourth kanji fits into the bottom part of the third. And the fifth kanji remains as it is…

This is a method often used in Shingon and Tendai Buddhism to create a mantra. This way the conscious mind is bypassed and the goods are delivered… The first who used this mantra is, to my knowledge, Saint Nichiren, a Japanese Buddhist reformer who lived from 1222- 1282. A student of mine in Japan told me that it is also used in ancient Shintoism, and the meaning is “Man and God are One”.

Confusion

Everyone seems to have their own theory of what the Reiki symbols mean, and how they are supposed to be used. I have explained where they come from and what their cultural/ religious background is above. 

However, Reiki is liquid and adjusts to the culture and the people that it is practiced by. Therefore many new ways of using the symbols have evolved. My understanding of that is, to incorporate what is useful- which you must find out for your self- and to let go of what is not for you. Everyone mixes his own cocktail and that is the nature of things. All I can say is: cheers…"

In conclusion, there will not be healing circle in SLC until Sunday, June 10 at 3:30. As a surprise, I am going to have healing circle "Japanese style" so wear jogging pants or pajama pants because jeans might be uncomfortable!!! Please remember that I have to answer my phone to let people in at the front door so please do not call me to talk to me during that time. At last healing circle I had people in the living room that I was happy to see and eager to talk with, and four different people called to talk to me while people were locked out at the front door and unable to get through to me because I was on the phone trying to get people off the phone, and then my cell phone started ringing! I'm just not the multi-tasker that I used to be. :-) I SO enjoy having just one task in front of my face, so I can be with the experience.....otherwise, I'll miss out on living....

Boundless love-light,

Carol

Copyright @ 2007 Carol A. Wilson

January 30, 2007

Dearest Friends:

The Secret

If you haven't heard about "The Secret", Oprah Winfrey will be highlight it on her show tomorrow, Wed., January 31 at 4:00. The DVD and book are amazing, and I highly recommend it to everyone, as I did "The Bleep" when it was released. 

Sylvia Brown

People have been asking me for my reaction to psychic medium Sylvia Brown "getting busted" over her totally inaccurate reading about Shawn Hornbeck after he disappeared. She told his parents that he had been abducted by a dark skinned man with long dread locks, and Shawn was no longer alive. Shawn's parents were devastated. We now know that none of those details are accurate. Montell apparently also "busted" her on his show where she got to meet a man whom she said had died and was "in water.". Sylvia's claim is that she has never said that she is 100% right, and now psychics are in this growing heated discussion, who joined Larry King on his show the other night. However, no one has clearly stated that one has to be "clear" in order to channel and one needs to do what it takes to be "clear." There are times when Reiki Masters have asked me to do their channeling when they have known they are not clear. I believe that this is the appropriate action. If you are not clear, have an awareness as to why you are not clear, do what it takes to get clear, and in the meantime, have someone who IS clear do your channeling for important matters. If I were to make an error like Sylvia has, I would not be channeling until I knew I was clear. Thus, if I were to make a recommendation to Sylvia right now, it would be to take a break and get clear or be open to the Universe possibly redirecting her into other opportunities. Isn't it unfortunate that she doesn't channel with Reiki symbols? Shawn Hornbeck's parents would have never been devastated, that's for sure. I am so grateful that Mrs. Takata gave this transmission for channeling to three of her Master students whose lineages appreciate and utilize this gift for the highest good of so many beings. And, like all transmissions, you cannot give the transmission as a Master until you have received an authentic transmission from a Master whose lineage can be verified back to Dr. Usui.

Please join us on Valentine's Day: This is GREAT, and our planet so needs this:

The 5th Annual 

WORLD SOUND HEALING DAY

FEB. 14, 2007

"The Sound Heard Around the World" 

Sounding an "AH" for planetary peace! 

WHAT: World Sound Healing Day—The Sound Heard Around the World. For five minutes, sound healers, meditators, peace activists and lovers of all humanity and sentient consciousness will send a Sonic Valentine to the Earth with the heart sound "AH" filled with the intention of Peace and Love! (visit: www.healingsounds.com to for more information on this event and to download an "AH" sound you can tone along with) 

WHEN: February 14, 2007, join Jonathan Goldman, the Sound Healers Association and thousands of people throughout the planet as they tone an "AH" together for five minutes during that day, projecting the energy of Light & Love throughout the Planet. You will actually experience generating a field of transformational energy as this occurs. We have found that creating a Global Sacred Sound any time within a 24 hour period on the planet will create a coherent waveform that will affect the entire Earth. Therefore, any time you feel guided to sound for Planetary Peace on February 14th is a good time! In addition, local toning groups will be occurring throughout the Earth at various times during that day with the intention of assisting planetary consciousness through sound. There will also be several global toning events occurring via the Internet during that day, including at noon Eastern Time on www.healthylife.net and at 9 PM ET on www.allonenow.org. 

WHY: To project peace throughout the planet. What better way to celebrate this joyous day of Valentine’s Day then to project Peace to Mother Earth and generate peaceful energy throughout the planet with sound! Sound coupled with intention has the ability to heal and transform. We will sound an "AH" sending a heart wave of Sound that will resonate throughout the planet. Now is the time for you to be part of the Celestial Choir and resonate together for World Sound Healing Day. We can create major positive shifts on our beloved planet. Through sounding together we will make a difference. 

HOW: Sound the heart sound "AH" for 5 minutes We will simply sound an "AH" filled with the intention of Peace and Love for 5 minutes at your local noon time. The "AH" is a universal, non-denominational heart sound that when projected with focused energy is extremely powerful and effective. For more information which you may find useful, please visit this link: www.healingsounds.com. There you will find a "Planetary Healing Sounds" section with articles on suggested sounds, visualizations and toning techniques as well as as well an "AH" sound you can download and tone along with. 

BOWLS

Love-light,

Carol

"When you meet with enmity and hatred, think, "This is a good friend helping me to cultivate patience! Think, "This helper for patience is a messenger sent by the victorious ones!" Guru Rinoche

Dearest Friends:

Many of us are feeling pain in our heart chakra as a result of the shooting massacre at Virginia Tech, which I have been additionally aware of because my daughter, Chelsey, has been in Fairfax, Virginia for the past two weeks doing investigative work for the federal government, and my parents live in Weems, Virginia.

Prayers and chanting "om mani peme hung" will help everyone. Sometimes I put a couple of drops of JOY on my heart chakra and hold my hands over my heart chakra or I hold a rose quartz crystal in my hands over my heart chakra (yes, the crystal gets very hot). I remember after 9/11 when a group of us Reiki practitioners and Masters got together to send Reiki and assist in the healing of the Universe. The screams of 9/11 alone had a shattering effect on many souls throughout the Universe, and SO much healing needed to be done. Let's remember that any time catastrophic events occur, they are not isolated, but rather, have a rippling effect throughout the Universe. One of our callings as healers is to take action and do what we can, utilizing the amazing gifts in our healing toolbox.

I am pasting in a portion of Frank Petter's latest newsletter because he has some great Reiki information. He also honors his teachers in the Reiki way in which teachers are honored. Frank is one who truly understands the Eastern philosophy in which Reiki was rediscovered not only because of his Zen background and training but because he was married to a Japanese woman for many years. This philosophy is often challenging for many Westerners. I remember Jhampa talking once about when he taught in India for the Dalai Lama, students would sit in reverence and respect but was he in for an awakening when he taught in the West and students would challenge and even argue with him. I also remember him telling me that if one wants to go to "well, just criticize your teacher." "Well", I asked? Yes, "WELL." Do you mean "hell"? I got a laugh out of that one but it is TRULY Eastern philosophy that the karmic consequences for such behavior are severe. I am very "old school" in that respect in that I deeply revere all of my spiritual teachers where rightness or wrongness is not germane. Those teachers go beyond Reiki teachers. When I travel to hear Lama Ole, I am the one who gets everyone on their feet here in the West when he walks into the room, and although Ole doesn't want us to bow and prostrate to him, I automatically do that with teachers who more strictly adhere to traditional protocol. I will attach a picture to prove it! One of my pilgrimmage friends from Germany took the picture of me with His Holiness the 17th Karmapa in Kalimpong, India, and that picture is my most cherished possession! Many, many years ago I told a friend of mine, "I will never, ever, ever do all of that bowing stuff that Buddhists do!" In retrospect, I didn't have the humility.

I remember reading all of the books about my Buddhist lineage teachers and what their own teachers put them through as a test of their devotion. It was more than I could bare to see Milarepa build a brick wall at the instruction of Marpa just to have Marpa tell him to tear it down and start over so many times that Milarepa became severely depressed! Milarepa wanted lineage transmissions much the same way as Mrs. Takata wanted to receive the Reiki transmission from Dr. Hayashi. She wanted the Reiki Mastership transmission so desperately that she was even willing to give Dr. Hayashi her home in Hawaii. In another book that I was reading about another lineage teacher, Tilopa, Tilopa would deliberately set up, Naropa, one of his students, for the most horrible experiences. I didn't think I could bear to see Naropa beat up or suffer one more catastrophic event one more time! But all of these events were teachings in humility and devotion to teacher. It takes a lot to cut through ego and pride.

I realize that the West has changed yoga from its original intention in the east but I hope that one day Reiki hasn't changed in the West to the extent that the context in which Reiki was founded is forgotten. Although times change, and as Frank says, every culture has its own "cocktail", I hope that we remain a little old school here in the West, which is what Mrs. Takata and our other lineage teachers would want. The reality is that the Reiki principles and ideals are being threatened here in the West, and I hope, not to extinction.

Copyright @ 2007 by Carol A. Wilson 

So, enjoy Frank's message, my friends:

"Spring has come, and the hearts blossom after a long period of gathering strength. Have you ever seen a lotus flower opening, petal after petal? Before we get into the Reiki work, I would like to share a text with you that I wrote in India some time ago:

A Ripple in the Lotus Pond

Every one has gone to sleep, except for the frogs and the silence in between their calls. They always talk to me, as I speak with them. Together, we watch the lotus that grows amongst them, opening. Petal by petal stretch forth in the moonlight. They know and I know. We have seen it happen many times before.

Clouds obscure the scene with their winter coats, hiding, then revealing mercilessly. Known and unknown sounds are carried by the cool fragrance of January. In the distance, an owl flies by, unseen.

Soft, dark and muddy, the bottom of the pond thinks of itself as the whole world. 

Pushing through is no easy task. The sap of life flows into one petal at a time, excruciatingly slow. The plant quivers: this way, and that way, ready to sink back to the bottom one more time. The gentle wind whispers in my ear “My love, the dawn is near.” 

The pond takes another breath as one more petal blooms where there was darkness a moment ago. Soon they will stand before it in awe and their hearts will be filled with bliss. They will pray to the Heavens and bow deeply to the Earth. It is good that they have never seen what I see.

I get up and go home, knowing that it will continue without me. A tear of gratitude slides out of my left eye: a ripple in the lotus pond.

And now to today’s Reiki theme:

The Reiki Symbols

I have been asked by a friend from South Africa to write an article on the Reiki- Symbols. After writing it I thought that it may be helpful to all of you. Below I will share with you what I have been able to research in Japan. My sources are the Usui Reiki Ryoho Gakkai- Dr. Usui’s original Reiki Society, and my beloved teacher, Chiyoko Yamaguchi, a direct student of Dr. Hayashi, and her son Tadao. When referring to Dr. Usui, Dr. Hayashi and Mrs. Yamaguchi, I will use the suffix Sensei. This is a Japanese word meaning “ respected teacher”. This is the proper way to address the one who imparts his love, grace and knowledge to you…

The Reiki Symbols are a wonderful source of inspiration, creativity and confusion. 

Inspiration

Let’s begin with the first, inspiration. Reiki was born in an eternal moment of intense inspiration and self- discovery. This intensity is present in any Reiki moment, during a treatment or an attunement. In a treatment, this is partly due to the symbols that intensify the energy, heal the soul and transcendent time and space. In an attunement it is due to the fact that the symbols help to awaken the sleeping Reiki in the student.

Creativity

Usui Sensei incorporated three symbols in his work, for his students to be able to work more effectively. Those three symbols were given specific jobs to do.

The Power Symbol was used exclusively on the body.

The Mental Healing Symbol was used exclusively for mental healing.

The Distant Healing Symbol was used exclusively for distant healing.

Three Concepts

When talking about the symbols, we must keep one thing in mind. The symbols have a geometric shape as well as a name- and, a meaning. This means, that a symbol can be many things. It can be a Reiki Symbol- meaning a tool that is exclusively used in Reiki. It can also be a Kanji (Chinese/ Japanese pictograph) or a symbol from another culture. And it can possibly be a Mantra. To all those three concepts apply different sets of rules.

1- A Reiki Symbol

A Reiki Symbol is a symbol incorporated into the Healing art by Usui Sensei. For me a symbol channeled by one of us, is not necessarily useless, but it does not belong to the original system. Therefore I would not call it a Reiki Symbol. A Reiki Symbol is Reiki specific. Usui And Hayashi Sensei stressed that they should not be shared with anyone who has not been attuned to Reiki. The one who uses it must have certain background knowledge, and healing skills, as well as instruction in how and when to use the symbol. You would not give a chain saw to a five year old either.

In the Japanese tradition the first two symbols are considered just symbols. They have a name but this name is just a description and the description does not need to be said when the symbol is written. Chiyoko Sensei said” no need to say “ spoon, spoon, spoon” when picking up a spoon

It is often thought that one is initiated into a certain symbol. The fact is that you are initiated into Reiki. The Symbols are just tools that help us concentrate on a certain quality. The cross, the symbols for male or female, or a stop sign on the highway are more or less the same. They tell us what we, and others ought to do in a given situation.

2- A Kanji or a letter/ syllable from another language

A Kanji or a letter/syllable from another language must have a certain meaning. The meaning of the power symbol, for example is 

“ By Imperial Command” or “ Direct Spirit”.

The meaning of the Mental Healing Symbol is “ Bad habit” (often used in connection with sexually perverted habits). This explains why in Japan the first two symbols are not chanted when they are used. Who could say while working on a client, “ By the order of the Emperor, by the order of the Emperor”, or even “bad habit bad habit bad habit…”?

Usui sensei gave the symbols Japanese names, because that was his language. The names were to explain what the symbols were used for. So “bad habit” is not really the name of the symbol, but a description of what we do with it.

The origin of the Second symbol is to be found in Sanskrit. It is a Sanskrit seed syllable from the Siddham writing, called Hrih. The Japanese call it “ Kiriku” because they have a hard time pronouncing a word filled with konsonant, like “hrih”.

In Japanese esoteric Buddhism (Mikkyo), this symbol represents the Amida Buddha, the Buddha of Love and Compassion as well as the Senju Kannon, the one thousand armed Bodhisattva. The Hrih, it is said, was formed out of a tear of compassion… 

So, knowingly or unknowingly you call on this divine emanation when you perform mental Healing. This means that you do not do the healing, but the deity does… 

A Mantra

A mantra is made of sound or a number of sounds. A mantra needs to be pronounced in order to release its power. The distant healing symbol is a mixture of symbol and mantra. That means that it must be written and spoken. If it cannot be spoken aloud, it has to be at least pronounced by your lips silently.

Our Distant Healing Symbol is made up of five kanji that are jammed into one another. This is not done deliberately, but with precision and deep knowledge of the subtleties of the language. If you were to write all the kanji separately, you would see that the top part of the second kanji fits into the bottom part of the first. The top part of the third kanji fits into the bottom part of the second. The top part of the fourth kanji fits into the bottom part of the third. And the fifth kanji remains as it is…

This is a method often used in Shingon and Tendai Buddhism to create a mantra. This way the conscious mind is bypassed and the goods are delivered… The first who used this mantra is, to my knowledge, Saint Nichiren, a Japanese Buddhist reformer who lived from 1222- 1282. A student of mine in Japan told me that it is also used in ancient Shintoism, and the meaning is “Man and God are One”.

Confusion

Everyone seems to have their own theory of what the Reiki symbols mean, and how they are supposed to be used. I have explained where they come from and what their cultural/ religious background is above. 

However, Reiki is liquid and adjusts to the culture and the people that it is practiced by. Therefore many new ways of using the symbols have evolved. My understanding of that is, to incorporate what is useful- which you must find out for your self- and to let go of what is not for you. Everyone mixes his own cocktail and that is the nature of things. All I can say is: cheers…"

Boundless love-light,

Carol

Archived Newsletter IV - January 17, 2007

Dearest Friends:

Happy New Year. I have decided to not produce separate newsletters for Reiki and Young Living Essential Oils this time because most of you are involved with both; thus, one newsletter will simplify for both of us. 

I want to make some comments, mention an event at my last Healing Oils of the Bible class last Wednesday night and also, send you some info from Pamela Miles about Alzheimer's and dementia. Pamela is also making a call for more research on Reiki, and I want to remind you that I am always collecting data. Someday I will report on the findings that I have received from teaching Reiki and from the healing experiences of our community. Thus, please share any experiences with me that you find relevant. I'm taking notes!

The Healing Oils of the Bible class last week was amazing. A woman from Provo came to the class and shared a testimonial that was riveting. She was taking 15 different prescription medications and addicted to several of those. Her physicians literally locked their doors and refused to prescribe any further meds. She was ill and depressed that she thought she was dying and even planned her own funeral with her family. She had remembered calling me and talking to me about YL essential oils and decided to take refuge in them. A month later, she is healed and well. From everyone who listened to her story--thank you.

My dream is to someday do a three year meditation retreat--but all in due time, and when the Universe releases me to do that. I am constantly revising and expanding my meditation class. I am actually teaching a meditation class this Saturday (NOON-8pm), January 20, in Salt Lake City, so please consider coming if you haven't taken the class. It's so wonderful to discover methods that tap into the unlimited potential, power, joy, love, compassion and wisdom that is inherent in each and every one of us. There may be dark clouds obscuring the sun, but it is always there, waiting for us to recognize its light and radiance.

Congratulations to 6 new Reiki Masters. In California: Dee Jerge; Linda Whiteside and Mike Simms. In Utah: Ric Reiser, Michelle Clifford, and Jonathan Webb.

Many of you are on the same Mastership path. It is so important to be present in it, and enjoy and savor the journey, which is a once in a lifetime event. I have made a national plea that healers heal themselves. Actually, the newsletter that I wrote to you in the past was widely circulated (so I heard from other Reiki Master Teachers), and it is that newsletter that prompted administrators at Young Living to ask me to expand the topic and speak on it in break-out sessions at their annual convention in September. That talk is available on the Conference DVD's that can be purchased through Young Living. I might add that one's healing is governed by natural laws and according to one's karma, and God nor any being of light will ever demand that you rush through the process of your training or your healing. Many of you understand how healing occurs, layer after layer and usually over a period of time. It is not selfish to focus on one's healing because ultimately it will allow you to have greater clarity and capacity for others. Unresolved issues can easily get in the way--and to one's detriment and the detriment of others. One of the greatest therapists I ever knew had unresolved issues, and without warning, the pathology that had developed as a result of those unresolved issues would surface and project unto others, and everyone who realized it would run and hide. Those who didn't understand what was going on were simply hurt by his behavior. Let's always be mindful that our intention is to facilitate healing in others and certainly not to hurt them or compromise their healing because we haven't done our homework.

And now, some enlightening info from Pamela Miles:

"Can Reiki help people with Alzheimer's and dementia?

I'm often asked about the appropriateness of Reiki for people with Alzheimer's disease or other dementia. Family members wonder if Reiki can calm their loved ones, improve cognitive function, or slow disease progression. Theoretically, since Reiki is balancing, yes to all these possibilities. Anecdotally, I've witnessed improvement in my clients and heard positive reports from other Reiki practitioners and doctors. If someone in your life is suffering from Alzheimer's or dementia, there is no reason not to add Reiki to their treatment plan. But it's important to note that scientific research in this area is just beginning. 

The good news is that there is increasing interest in such research. The November 2006 issue of the Journal of Alternative and Complementary Medicine included a short report of a study looking Reiki's ability to improve memory and reduce behavior problems for people with mild Alzheimer's or cognitive impairment. For her master's thesis in gerontology at San Francisco State University, Deborah Salach looked at Reiki's effect on depression and anxiety in this population. The number of participants in each study(24 in the first and 8 in the second) is too small to warrant serious attention to the results, and both papers acknowledge weaknesses in design, but the benefits documented are promising. Additionally, the studies are important as feasibility studies, showing that Reiki treatment can be offered to dementia patients in conventional care facilities. This is a vital step toward creating the rigorous research that physicians need to recommend Reiki as standard treatment."

Thank you for your many kindnesses, your love and your support. May the merit of our collective efforts serve to benefit all beings without exception.

Boundless Love and Light,

Carol

Archived Newsletter III - October 9, 2006

Dearest Friends:

My children came to hear me speak at the Young Living Convention. Whereas my daughters have seen me lecture many times in the university classroom, and Chelsey enrolled in a Stress Management class I taught at Utah State University, my son, Colby, has never seen me in front of a crowd. It was hard for him to believe that mom did such things; thus, the first thing he wanted to know was, “Weren’t you nervous? What were you thinking before you stepped out on that stage?” Because he asked, I needed to be honest. Thus, I said, “Before I stepped out on the stage, I was in prayer. I said an aspiration prayer that the information I gave would be of benefit to all sentient beings so that hopefully, their suffering would be less.” The smile left Colby’s face. Then I said, “I wasn’t nervous because I wasn’t thinking about me. It wasn’t about me.”

I find more and more every day that not much is about me any more. The week before, I was helping a realtor by keeping a key to some of the condos that are for sale in my building. One day I not only had the key to Gwyn's unit but I met a realtor and prospective buyer at the front door and accompanied them to her unit. I took over. The realtor hardly said a word. I showed the buyer the unit, gave her a tour of the entire building, and took her back to the unit, even though the realtor said that they had another appointment. To my amazement, the buyer decided that she wanted to purchase Gwyn’s unit. I couldn’t believe it. I called my son, who is a realtor, and told him that I had just sold a condo--that I had no idea I could do such a thing. “Gosh, maybe I should have a real estate license”, I said. But, later that night, I discovered that during that time, Gwyn was on an airplane in prayer that her condo would sell within two weeks because her husband had accepted a job offer in Atlanta, Georgia. Thus, what had really transpired was that I was merely an instrument in the execution of a Divine Plan, and it wasn’t about me at all. 

Our Reiki community will certainly miss Gwyn, who became one of my Reiki Masters last January. You can feel her spiritual strength in her best selling novels, which can be found at www.ebonisnoe.com, and the next time you’re at my condo, check out her magnificent tree that is now in my bedroom. I waited until Gwyn had left Utah to leave her binder about condo policies and procedures in what I knew would be an empty unit. I placed it on the fireplace mantel. I walked around and made a mental note of all the things I had appreciated: her spiritual statues, her picture of Sai Baba in the hallway, her altar in the bedroom. With every mental note, I also noted that they were gone. They had disappeared like a flash just as she was now gone in a flash on her way to Atlanta. It was another exercise in impermanence but a practice that I have incorporated into my daily life. When we recognize the impermanence of extrinsic phenomenon we also recognize that loss and suffering are impermanent. Just last week a couple sat in my living room for four hours, and the one message I got across to them was that their suffering, which they felt was permanent—was, in fact, impermanent, and they would one day look back on their current situation as a blink in time. It was that thought, I believe, that triggered an A-HA moment that gave them a reframed perspective and thus, some renewed strength.

I’m beginning to believe that there is a rite of passage before one becomes a healer, and that rite of passage is suffering. It really is analogous to seeing a beautiful lotus flower emerge and transform into the light from a dark and murky place.

Next month I travel to San Diego for a week to attune new Masters and spend time with my Lama Ole and his wife, Hannah. Reiki Master Bonnie Horrigan is so gracious in inviting me to stay in her wonderful home---among the shamans of old. 

Thank you for the work you do in raising the vibration of this planet and in helping others to heal. Although I only mentioned a few people in our Reiki community, all of you are equally special, and all of you are an inspiration. I will continue to hold healing circle in Salt Lake City on the second Sunday of every month at 3:30 but I will not send email reminders. I trust that if you need to be here--for whatever reason—to share, inspire, rejuvenate, or heal--the Universe will direct. Remember to check my website at www.carolwilson.org for current class schedules. 

Boundless Love and Light,

Carol

Archived Reiki Newsletter II - April 30, 2006 - "First Do No Harm"

Dearest Friends:

When I taught Group Psychotherapy and Professional Ethics courses to Marriage, Family and Child Therapy students in California, it became apparent to me that many of those students wanted to become therapists because they had tremendous healing to do themselves. However, I would always remind them, “You can only take people in the healing process as far as you, yourself, have gone.” There is no way that one can guide someone through a healing process if one has not gone through that same process, but more importantly, if a healer goes unhealed, that healer can cause harm to his/her clients and patients and to oneself. Because of this risk of harming others, students who are in clinical training to become therapists MUST undergo individual therapy in order to deal with their own healing issues and heal before they even begin to think that they can help others to heal. I believe that this same crucial need to address personal healing issues applies to all healers.

I will share with you a couple of examples to demonstrate what can occur if a healer has not healed. Let’s say that Reiki practitioner, Jane, was raped as a young child but had not healed from that experience. One day, a man schedules a Reiki session with Jane but when he arrives at his appointment, he reminds Jane of the man who raped her. A transference occurs. By the time the man is on the table, Jane has developed an aversion towards him with feelings of fear and distrust. Let’s also say that Jane is unhappy, believing it is unfair that she has been professionally unsuccessful. The next day a very successful, beautiful young woman arrives for a scheduled Reiki healing session. The woman reminds Jane of her own lack of success, and she is instantly jealous of the woman. In both of these cases, Jane has projected negative feelings---her unhealed “stuff”---onto a man and woman who came to her for a healing session—a healing session that turned out, instead, to be a harming session. Thus, innocent person were harmed by the healer’s own healing issues as a result of the negative energy that was projected--contrary to what the healer was supposed to be doing. This raises a serious ethical issue---ethical issues that should apply to all healers who work in the healing professions.

Although most of you did not choose to pursue clinical training, it is helpful for you to be aware of “red flags” that indicate when a healer is in need of healing. Does he/she find fault, criticize or dislike someone for an unfounded reason? It could be that there is a transference that is forcing that person to face an issue within himself/herself---as if a button is being pushed. It has nothing to do with defects or shortcomings of the other person. However, the healer’s negativity not only harms the other person---it is also harming the healer because the healer is not separating his/her own healing issues from the other person’s healing issues but rather, is allowing the issues to get “muddled up together.” Tragically, if this continues, the healer can actually become psychotic.

I realize now that one reason why I wanted my students to experience and learn Raindrop Technique is because it helps them heal—especially at the DNA level. I realize that if my students heal themselves first, they will then have the capacity to help others heal rather than harm others. We are always healing to some extent but when the bulk of the work is done, we can separate our own healing from other’s healing and thus, do no harm. Interestingly, I have observed that when most students begin their own healing journey with Reiki, it is understandably about “me, me, me”, which is because they are working through their own issues and healing. When the shift changes to thinking about “others, others, others” and the “me” focus seems to disappear, it is because they have significantly healed and thus, have the “capacity” to help others heal. We cannot truly be of benefit to others if we are confused or suffering ourselves simply because we will not have the capacity to do so.

It is our Western indoctrination that has trained us to focus on outcome—the degree—the certificate—obtaining titles—being called a Master. But focus on outcome can often rob us of the most important part—the process. It reminds me of the 1964 Olympics theme: “The most important part of the Olympic games is not the triumph but the struggle.” It is also the “self is the master of self” process and struggle in our own healing journey that is most beneficial, rather than the triumph of what we perceive as a final outcome. No wonder so many people suffer with depression after they receive that long sought degree or obtain the title of Master. They missed out on the importance of the process, and now all they have is a piece of paper in their hand.

If people have not healed through their “stuff” and you, as a healer, do not recognize it but engage with them to the point that you are reinforcing their “little story”, you are not helping that person. You are only helping them to develop more pathology. The beauty of Functional Family Therapy (FFT), a National Blueprint Model, and the model in which I was trained, is that no negativity is allowed whatsoever in therapy. The therapist is trained to interrupt any negative comment and reframe it into something positive and/or benign. That reframe supports the meta-analysis that I conducted during my postdoctoral fellowship in regard to negativity in family functioning, which I can summarize in three words: Negativity is lethal. It is why group psychotherapy can make people sicker. People are sitting and listening to everyone’s negative “stuff.” That is why I no longer teach group psychotherapy. I believe in the admonition, “First, do no harm.” Reiki does no harm, and thus, Reiki is a better tool for helping others heal. Offering Reiki to others or encouraging them to have Reiki in their own hands is far more prudent than excessive listening or advice. There are other beneficial tools, as well, such as sound healing, essential oils, Raindrop Technique and meditation.

I always think about the bond that connects all sentient beings. We all want happiness, and we do not wish to suffer. If we have compassion, we will not want others to suffer, and we will not do or say anything that will cause others to suffer. If we cause suffering in others, we will perpetuate more karmic suffering because it will return to us. 

In conclusion, an unhealed healer eventually becomes detrimental to healing, and may actually block and confuse the way for others. When a healer doesn’t do his/her work, the flow is stopped, and he/she will not benefit from healing energy and others won't benefit, either. If you really want to help someone else, help yourself first. As Jesus said, “Heal thyself.” Enjoy and embrace the process. It is then that the healer can truly be a spark, a flame, and then a beacon of light for the darkness in the world. What better motivation for healing can their possibly be?

Much love and light,

Carol

Copyright @ 2006 by Carol A. Wilson